Dan Savage
Yes.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GvowcsC0CAYhttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r1tCAXVsClw
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Just watching these two videos (though, admittedly I may have watched more like 30 in total) made me think about things entirely differently.- relationship dynamics, communication, sex, etc.
And I have to admit, after watching these videos I realized I had some misconceptions, if you will, or romanticized ideas, that are potentially destructive to my psyche and probably my relationship (not to be dramatic or anything).....Things like if you are in love than certain things will be "easy" or should just "naturally happen"....No.
Who knows how true that is for some couples. But thinking that can cause a self-doubt-terror-spiral that is both unecessary and highly alarming. So stop!
I would consider myself a level-headed rational person. So that was kind of a lightbulb moment. Very helpful. Anyway, all ranting aside. He's awesome. And this is smart stuff....watch it!
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