Maybe I need a busy schedule.

Having a sense of purpose is important for being happy. I don't think this is news to anyone, especially me. But its also not something to take lightly.

It's easy for us to conflate "purpose" with "work;" so if we don't have work-or, in my case, meaningful work-we feel totally without purpose.

So, what do you do? Short answer: find one? Easier said than done.

Long answer:
I've read a few self-help-related articles and the general consensus is this: purposeful play and fun is a thing that exists, and the joy and satisfaction that comes from a really fulfilling hobby/set of activities can happen. And be awesome.


Long-Answer, Part Two: 
I need to focus on myself. But not in a selfish way, that isn't conducive to serious relationships. I need to strike a balance between finding fulfillment in my daily activities/life/projected future while also sharing that/myself with others.